We began our homeschool year early. Like, Indiana early. Which is to say that I welcomed my kids "back to school" in the month of July, acting as though the tail end of summer is the perfect time to dive into a year of rigorous, focused study. A friend of mine, who is infinitely more sensible than I, told me she wouldn't be starting until after Labor Day.
Fortunately, part of the beauty of homeschooling is that it gives me the opportunity to realize when I'm being ridiculous and simply scrub the plan and start over as needed. We've done a lot of that these last couple months. And I mean a lot.
My personality is extremely Type A. I like things organized and neat. I love lists and charts, and my neat little agenda book is one of my most valued possessions. So the beginning of our school year included a carefully organized set of drawers with flashcards, games, and craft supplies carefully divided by subject. I meticulously planned out our first few months of schooling day by day with a handy little checklist for what we would do. These crisp agenda pages were tucked into my homeschooling binder, complete with brand new tabbed dividers in bright colors that matched the whimsical cover I put together with some of my favorite inspirational quotes from my page-a-day calendar. Supplies were purchased, lists were made, what could go wrong?
It only took a few days to realize that this neat and pretty plan was great for my learning style, but terrible for the boys'. They gamely played along on day one, but as the week wore on Peyton made it abundantly clear that he had no real interest in learning this way. His hand would "mysteriously" rebel and scribble out his letters when I was encouraging him to write, though he could draw a train or a monster truck in great detail and with perfect ease.
My carefully laid plans were basically public school at the kitchen table. Once I caught myself snapping curtly about how we had to finish our worksheet on coins before we could go play, I realized how disconnected this path was from all the reasons we decided to homeschool.
Having graduated from public school myself, there's only one kind of education I'm intimately familiar with, and without realizing it, that's exactly the kind of learning I tried to shape our homeschool around. Fortunately, I caught myself early on, slapped the binder closed, and began looking for a different path.
This isn't to say that worksheets at the kitchen table should be eradicated from all homeschooling. In fact, last year pouring over those workbooks was one of Peyton's favorite activities, and something he would do on a self-directed basis. But I think the key is in the self-direction.
It's almost painfully difficult for me to let go of the lists and agendas and explore a more relaxed approach to homeschooling, but when I do loosen my grip and let the boys lead, it's overwhelmingly clear that they're learning far more than they would with my rigid direction at this age.
As I started to ease up on plowing through our daily checklist, I got a chance to see which activities really appealed to the boys, and which ones we just needed to discard. We didn't follow a set schedule every day, and the binder became a tool for ideas rather than a must-do. Rather, we read when the boys came running to me with a pile of books (which always happens several times a day), looked up answers when they initiated a discussion (What kind of caterpillar is that on the playgroud? How does a windmill work? Where's China on the map?), and pulled out craft supplies when Peyton asked to create something.
At the beginning of the year, my goal was to create a curriculum that would take us on a journey around the world. We would cook our way through different countries, studying a new one every month. Fortunately, the one thing Peyton did dive into with gusto was his geography workbook, and he's fascinated with the world map we put up in his room. So while the idea is still solid, we're learning to approach it from a different angle than I originally planned. We didn't get through all the worksheets I had on my checklists, and my lessons on the United States flag fell pretty flat. But here's what we did accomplish:
- Made a collage of the state bird, tree, animal, and flower of Florida
- Colored and laminated the Florida flag
- Made a paper compass
- Powered through our geography workbook
- Drew a map of our neighborhood and made it into a 3-D model with blocks
- Organized our play food into food groups
- Made and laminated a food plate
- Spent lots of time in the kitchen cooking, baking, measuring, talking about ingredients, and learning about the different ways food transforms as you heat, cool, mix, and cook it
- Painted our little hearts out
- Made our names from modeling dough
- Decorated and built a magic trolley
- Played...
- ...and played...
- ...and played!
The listmaking bug still bites sometimes, and I'm happiest when our schedule is filled with fun outings to look forward to with friends, but I have definitely learned as much as anyone about the best way to organize our learning, which has turned out to be not very much at all.
























































